November 16, 2008

five things

Ex-Lion Tamer tagged me for posting five interesting things about me.

I had to do some serious thinking about this, since these days, my life is about as interesting as a bowl of cold oatmeal.

1. I once accidentally left a pink satin teddy in a bed at a New York City hotel where my daughter was waitressing/singing.

2. For more than twenty-five years people assumed that I had curly hair because I always had a perm.

3. Last night my mother and I stayed up until 2 a.m. watching "Lilies of the Field," and I realized that I had never seen the movie before! Sidney Poitier was totally HOT!

4. I hardly ever read non-fiction. I am usually reading two fiction books at the same time and listening to a third on my MP3 player as I fall asleep. Understandably, I often don't remember the stories a month later.

5. I started two craft businesses thus far in my lifetime, doing craft fairs and selling to folks who found out about my wares by word of mouth. The first I called "Self-stones," and I turned tumbled stones into various simple accessory items and packaged them with a description of the magical lore and healing properties associated with those stones. The second was called "Sass & Chic," and I sold shawls that I crocheted in a spiral from a pattern that I designed. Here's a photo of four, two of which I embellished with washable pony beads.

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Of course, I never really made any money from either craft business. But I had fun.

I need to figure out how to have some fun in the future.

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August 5, 2008

saved by a craft

Sometimes these days I think the only way I have stopped myself from strangling my brother and/or my mother is by picking up a crochet hook or a pair of knitting needles and going at it with a new hank of yarn.

I realized recently that I am a "process" craftsperson rather than a "product" one. I have at leave five projects started that I've set aside because I got to points in the patterns that required a lot of attention to detail. So I've started a lightweight crocheted afghan for when I move in with my daughter and family. It's the same stitch over and over again -- striped using two related yarns. There is something about the rhythm of the hand movements that's mesmerizing, mentally relaxing. I can sit in the middle of a raging familial storm and block it out with the repeating stitch mantra. It's certainly better for my health than drinking.

Oh, I have finished projects -- like this and this and this and this.

But that was all before I moved my mother and me in with my brother. That was before my mother needed 24/7 care. Then I had the mental energy to focus on the details of form.

Now I just need something to do with my hands, something to intrude between my world and my brain. Something that I can easily put down if I have to.

So, it's

Yarn over hook.
Insert hook in the next stitch to be worked.
Yarn over hook.
Pull yarn through stitch.
Yarn over hook.
Pull yarn through all 3 loops on hook ..........

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